experts say parents self-mutilation substantially equivalent to the use of violence against children
female father: Please teach me how to educate their children? Today’s kids, parents teach them so hard! Cut to the heart can not wait to her, but she is ungrateful!
psychologists: From the psychological point of view, parents self-mutilation with the use of violence against children is the same in real terms, are the children of a punishment … … pass out, \he died for you to see \
daughter read the first two days after the summer holidays all day wallowing in the network, Guangzhou, an invalid mother repeatedly to discourage education, angrily actually eat rats drug suicide. Reporter yesterday from the Second People’s Hospital of Guangdong Province was informed that the timely rescue, the mother has been out of danger.
\He said how to bridge this event in the hearts of mother and daughter caused by wounds, to educate a teenager, the daughter, is the most for his headache. Mother and daughter now talking and laughing, but her daughter had not apologized or expressed throughout to change.
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who lives in Taiwan, Chung Hui, Haizhu District, Guangzhou who do construction materials business. His wife, Miss Wan is Chongqing, full-time housewife. The couple have two children,Female students uncle allegedly as a result of rape to avoid jumping, daughter, Hsiao-chen (a pseudonym) 14 years old, read the first two days in the Haizhu District.
Mr Hui said, when her normally likes to play games online, under the supervision of their parents fairly modest, at most not more than one bell. But this summer was hot, her height was absolutely does not seem to leave, bored at home every day to chat online with classmates, and more and more time online each day at least more than five minutes, even to the extent of sleepless nights.
\talk back. \\What happened, she did not say anything.
Tunyao 30 g nearly the order to send
when into the kitchen, the front of the scene that he suddenly stunned. \on the ground, and began to spasm symptoms. Hui rushed quickly be sent to the Second People’s Hospital of Guangdong Province.
her medical staff immediately induce vomiting, gastric lavage. \nearly 30 grams of rat poison, poisoning is severe, occur once every two minutes, convulsions, decreased heart rate occurred during a time of crisis.
doctors worry that, she swallowed the rat poison is too big frequent cause convulsions, gastric lavage in the implementation of the time, at any time because of vomiting and choking, life-threatening, she was immediately transferred to the intensive care unit emergency . After several days of rescue, treatment, current Miss Wan has passed the critical stage, but the rat poison on her liver caused some damage, remains to be seen.
Why commit suicide?
wife personality Unyielding
\voice choking. Anger, pain has been severely attacked for his daughter’s daughter, Hsiao-meal, \
At that time, her daughter kept his head down, also saw the expression of repentance. But her mother a few days hospitalized, Mr. Xu to see another mother and daughter talking and laughing, but he did not confirm anything about it really in the past, the mother and daughter have no heart left in shadow.
Why Miss Wan would take the extreme behavior? \ready mentioned. In order to stimulate her, he did not dare ask.
Hui analysis
why the rebellion?
make her \The mother is more cautious. Like many families, the husband and wife teaching division of the hour of midnight, \
However, this year, when her rebellious up suddenly, \He said the relationship between mother and daughter are usually tense. For reasons to become rebellious daughter, Mr. Xu insisted that make her into a post-secondary \\/ p>
Mr. Xu said that before the holidays, when her performance due to significant improvement in recognition of the parents at the focus was the class teacher, the family happy. \. After the event, her daughter did not take the initiative to apologize to the parents, no promise will not change, Mr Hui also not willing to take the initiative to touch the Road scars.
father admitted that fact to the present, he did not know what her daughter really needs. \
psychological
expert
Focus Analysis
self-mutilation in order to teach women
may play a counter-
the contrary, the child may be indifferent towards the Church of All
\understanding of the mother to her daughter, \
, she said, from the psychological point of view, parents self-mutilation with the use of violence against children is the same in real terms, are the children of a punishment, but the former would not directly harm children, but by self-mutilation to put pressure on the children, pass out, \
first time, children may fear, guilt, and according to the meaning of the parents change their behavior, but in fact the heart is not convinced, over time, or will Reappearance of the old state. \
\received her grievances, but why she did not listen the views of adults? \These days, he has been reflecting on the year how to deal with adolescent’s own parents, but find themselves a bit of experience is not useful to her daughter, \old thinks he knows everything, not listening to the views of adults. \
the two sides should support each other not to go it alone
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traditional family education is \Mr. Xu a, too, \prompted the mother to enhance control. \At this time the father should be given support, not to let his mother alone. Truly scientific \
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term 2
first two days of the phenomenon of distress parents
avoid every control, to the child breathing space
words contradict rebellious actions, which are prone to in the first two days. As is in the \
\give kids a release of pressure to stay, the space bar the pursuit of happiness? \hair disheveled. \their experience to face the children that year. Qiyuan Li said, not to the child’s rebellion comes down to make \As long as children can ensure academic achievement, to develop their own health-loving, parents must let go of the time to let go.